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the love game.

27 Wednesday Jun 2012

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break up, couples, destiny, fool, game, heart-break, love, make up, relationship, trying

couples who break up and then get back together several times during their ill-fated relationship:

i’m not very fond of people like you.

i see this occurring way too often…

one week you’re in a relationship and everything is jelly beans and joy…

and then the following week it’s just brussels sprouts and bad news.

and it continues to be so during their marathon on-and-off courtship!

unless drama is the only thing that is striving in your relationship, this kind of behavior is highly disastrous and exceedingly unhealthy.

so, what gives?

what is the point in tirelessly trying over and over again?

for the most part, there is an obvious reason why two people break up…

something just doesn’t seem to be working and no matter how many times you attempt it, it simply isn’t in your destiny to continue being with one another.

but for a number of absurd rationales, some couples just cannot grasp this seemingly simple concept…

and this could ultimately lead to a heart-break beyond repair.

i don’t believe in “going back to an ex”…

i have never allowed this to become an option for me.

mostly because i am wise enough to realize that certain problems will not disappear merely because we want them to…

and as much as we hope and pray that we can work through them, if it wasn’t resolved during the time we were together, then the possibility of it being perfected if we were to give it another go, is pretty close to nonexistent.

of course letting go of someone is never going to be an easy feat, but the longer you procrastinate in doing so, the more difficult it will be to break this defective habit…

as The Stylistics so eloquently put it:

“Break up to make up, that’s all we do.
First you love me, then you hate me…
That’s a game for fools.”

fool me once, shame on you…

fool me twice?

well, that will never happen.

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the absent amore.

06 Wednesday Jun 2012

Posted by shekardaneh in enlightening evaluations

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absent, amore, consistency, craving, fonder, heart, lack, liaisons, miss, vacancy

i don’t habitually miss people…

it’s not something that i do on purpose, but it just doesn’t seem to be a piece of the dominant emotions located within my limbic system.

this is why i have a ponderous time believing that absence factually makes the heart grow fonder…

because it seems to fully contradict the whole “out of sight, out of mind” phrase that we have all grown to regurgitate after every single break up that we endure.

so does the lack of something really increase your craving for it?

or does that distance simply make you care less?

i have had my fair share of “liaisons”…

and unfortunately for me, most of them haven’t been located within my desired driving radius.

but of course, we do what we need to do for our social affections, right?

therefore, i have teetered frequently between pining for them incessantly after not seeing them often enough, to slowly becoming accustomed to the vacancy…

and that isn’t a comfort that i prefer to indulge in.

i mean, i know myself…

i get sick of seeing someone relatively quickly.

yet that doesn’t necessarily mean that my feelings for them dissipate…

and that also doesn’t mean that i need or want to constantly spend every moment with them either.

but in order for anything to survive and gain longevity, there needs to be a balance…

and too much time apart and too much time together is presently not where the equilibrium lies.

therefore, i firmly believe that consistency is a crucial factor in making any progress in the development of your relationships…

so hold me close, tiny dancer…

and then kindly get out of my face.

but only for a little while…

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